When we love someone we think this love is created and is belonging to this person.
It is not!
Of course this someone is very special and the special „taste“ of love, you´ve experienced with this person, is unique. I´ve never ever loved two persons in the same way.
When two persons meet it is like very special spices coming together. They fit or they don´t. And if they fit, they´ll create a special flavour. But the other is always awakening your own love. He isn´t your love.
So if the other leaves, dead or alive, this special kind of loving goes away, but not Love. And not even this special kind of loving goes really, as we all meet again in the big spicy soup one day.
And believe me they also return in physical form sooner or later. I´ve met some past lovers in this lifetime. Noone gets lost. That´s the good and the bad news 😉
But what will always stay with you is Love itself. If heartbreak occurs, the problem is not the other going away, but your attitude if you stay in misery and pain.
The heartbreak is occuring because of wrong conclusions. Ideas like that we will never love again are causing the pain.
In fact the feeling of an aching heart is your heart not wanting to get closed, as this is against its nature. It´s you closing your heart, not the other leaving, what is so painful.
If you think you´ll never love that much again that might even become a self-fulfilling prophecy, as the next special someone coming along will only recieve a little bit of love, sneaking out of your armoured heart. But your heart is all about amour, not about armour.
A little bit of love won´t create a huge love story. So you´ll end up with persons that are also loving just a little bit.
I know most humans love that way. But it´ll never be my way. Love is too beautiful to live the small, traders mind, version. Traders mind means: I give a little bit if you give a little bit, so we are not alone.
Don´t do that. Love fully, even if that seems risky. Be aware that no love ever leaves you. It´s not possible. Hold their best as a pleasant memory and give from the beauty of your rich heart to the others that embody the One Love, that lives in all that is.
Shine your light!